How do you react?
Most people are often confused about how to react to different cases, condition, and actions.
This one is for all those who rethink the ways that they could have reacted to a certain situation, or think about the ideal reply, which would have given them a desired result.
this may be because they don't know what to do, or are stunned/ turned flabbergaster, or because they have done it so many times that they have lost the interest to do it the "right" way, or are trying to copy someone else.
The best things you can do in these cases are:
1. Be yourself
Most people in order to be perfect copy others and forget to behave like themselves. They are called plastics by the originals. You need to have your own flavour to get what you want. the way you get it or maybe don't is an experience in itself. They say whatever happens happens for the good. Believe in it and yourself. You will probably wing it in seconds.
2. Emotions
No one likes the robots. You need to think with your brain and yet feel with your heart while you do things. It will give you the best results. and what isbest nobody but you can tell. It's your little secret afterall.
3. Behaviour/ Demeanour of the other person
One thing that doesn't depend upon you. The behaviour of the other person. you need to look out, whether the person is responsive, closed-off, or very happy, or just listening to you for the sake of listening, and doesn't give two shits about you.This is what will determine your chances of getting what you want... or making someone else talk their heart out.
4. Confidence
They say confidence is the key. And it's not for nothing that they say it. You need to believe in yourself, take a deep breath and go with the flow. Trust me it will be the best conversation you will ever have in your life.
This one is for all those who rethink the ways that they could have reacted to a certain situation, or think about the ideal reply, which would have given them a desired result.
this may be because they don't know what to do, or are stunned/ turned flabbergaster, or because they have done it so many times that they have lost the interest to do it the "right" way, or are trying to copy someone else.
The best things you can do in these cases are:
1. Be yourself
Most people in order to be perfect copy others and forget to behave like themselves. They are called plastics by the originals. You need to have your own flavour to get what you want. the way you get it or maybe don't is an experience in itself. They say whatever happens happens for the good. Believe in it and yourself. You will probably wing it in seconds.
2. Emotions
No one likes the robots. You need to think with your brain and yet feel with your heart while you do things. It will give you the best results. and what isbest nobody but you can tell. It's your little secret afterall.
3. Behaviour/ Demeanour of the other person
One thing that doesn't depend upon you. The behaviour of the other person. you need to look out, whether the person is responsive, closed-off, or very happy, or just listening to you for the sake of listening, and doesn't give two shits about you.This is what will determine your chances of getting what you want... or making someone else talk their heart out.
4. Confidence
They say confidence is the key. And it's not for nothing that they say it. You need to believe in yourself, take a deep breath and go with the flow. Trust me it will be the best conversation you will ever have in your life.
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